\u201cT\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka qe shpreh zem\u00ebrimin e nj\u00eb personi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb reagim i natyrsh\u00ebm i k\u00ebsaj ndjenje por q\u00eb perceptohet si nj\u00eb form\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimi social edhe para nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije 4 vje\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo form\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shprehet t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e gabuar dhe prind\u00ebrit nuk duhet ta justifikojn\u00eb nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb till\u00eb edhe pse t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebmendjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb \u00e7ast\u201d, shprehet doktor Kylie Prulett i cili mbron iden\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit nuk duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebrtasin dhe ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kusht! Megjithat\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb disa mite rreth t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit q\u00eb babai i b\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturat tuaja do t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb zhvillimin e tyre<\/p>\n
Kjo varet nga temperamenti i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. N\u00ebse f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb i turpsh\u00ebm ai do ta vuaj\u00eb m\u00eb gjat\u00eb agresionin q\u00eb ju shfaq\u00ebt, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb disi i pavarur do ta p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb edhe m\u00eb pak. N\u00eb zhvillimin neurologjik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs do t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb edhe forca t\u00eb tjera gjat\u00eb pun\u00ebs tuaj me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kuptojn\u00eb se nj\u00eb i rritur \u00ebsht\u00eb i nervozuar nga sjellja e tyre<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kuptojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb gjendjen tuaj emocionale dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk keni p\u00ebrse t\u00eb b\u00ebrtisni me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. Emocionet tuaja do t\u00eb shprehen edhe n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet ndrysjes s\u00eb vetullave, skuqjes n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb etj.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb impuls i rreziksh\u00ebm<\/p>\n
Kur f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rrezik, prind\u00ebrit nuk mund t\u00eb frenojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturin, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ashtu duhet t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb automatike nga sistemi nervor si nj\u00eb form\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb ndihm\u00eb. Refleksi i t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit shp\u00ebton jet\u00eb, megjithat\u00eb ngelet n\u00eb kornizat e nj\u00eb refleksi dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret n\u00eb momentet e gabuara.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt ju d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00ebse b\u00ebrtisni<\/p>\n
Ka nj\u00eb diferenc\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe midis t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuarit dhe t\u00eb kuptuarit t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb jeni duke th\u00ebn\u00eb. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb prind b\u00ebrtet f\u00ebmija ju d\u00ebgjon por m\u00eb shum\u00eb siguri nuk po \u201cthith\u201d shum\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb jeni duke th\u00ebn\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkaq m\u00ebson se duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb frik\u00eb nga ju.<\/p>\n
E b\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr<\/p>\n
N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb sipas asaj q\u00eb mjek\u00ebt shprehin p\u00ebr \u201cFatherly\u201d, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb provuar duke qen\u00eb se t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebshkim fizik q\u00eb nuk e prek zhvillimin moral t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebss.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit<\/p>\n
T\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit rezulton t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e lidhur me gjinin\u00eb e personit. K\u00ebshtu nuk jemi duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se n\u00ebnat nuk b\u00ebrtasin, por baballar\u00ebt e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb me m\u00eb tep\u00ebr forc\u00eb. Kjo ndodh p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb testosteronit (hormon mashkullor) dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye baballar\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsohen n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se n\u00ebnat. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb jemi t\u00eb irrituar z\u00ebri do t\u00eb jet\u00eb automatikisht m\u00eb i lart\u00eb, dhe n\u00ebse marrim n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb trash\u00ebsin\u00eb e z\u00ebrit mashkullor, do t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se babai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe m\u00eb i friksh\u00ebm n\u00eb syt\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebrtas\u00eb. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb pozitivisht n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cT\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka qe shpreh zem\u00ebrimin e nj\u00eb personi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb reagim i natyrsh\u00ebm i k\u00ebsaj ndjenje por q\u00eb perceptohet si nj\u00eb form\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimi social edhe para nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije 4 vje\u00e7ar. N\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo form\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shprehet t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturit \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e gabuar dhe prind\u00ebrit nuk duhet ta justifikojn\u00eb nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb till\u00eb edhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":113985,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-113984","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-shendetesi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113984","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113984"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113984\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113984"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113984"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113984"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}