{"id":13305,"date":"2018-03-18T11:04:11","date_gmt":"2018-03-18T11:04:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/?p=13305"},"modified":"2018-03-18T11:04:11","modified_gmt":"2018-03-18T11:04:11","slug":"erioni-mbeti-plage-qe-nuk-harrohet-kurre-nga-prinderit-dhe-familjaret-e-tij","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/erioni-mbeti-plage-qe-nuk-harrohet-kurre-nga-prinderit-dhe-familjaret-e-tij\/","title":{"rendered":"Erioni mbeti plag\u00eb q\u00eb nuk harrohet kurr\u00eb nga prind\u00ebrit dhe familjar\u00ebt e tij"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Thon\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pjesa m\u00eb e dhimbshme e njeriut. Ata jan\u00eb shpirti dhe zemra e prind\u00ebrve. Jan\u00eb e ardhmja e njeriut. S\u2019ka pasuri m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt ta shtojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb ndaj pun\u00ebs e jet\u00ebs. T\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb krenar n\u00eb bot\u00eb. P\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit japin jet\u00ebn. Pra, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasuria m\u00eb e madhe dhe m\u00eb e dashur n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Lum\u00eb kush ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb! Jo vet\u00ebm kaq. Shaban Foniqi, nga Kara\u00e7eva e Kamenic\u00ebs, me banim n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, tash e n\u00ebnt\u00eb vjet jeton me dhembje. Dhimbja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, sa nuk i hiqet dot nga mendja. I mungon Erioni i vog\u00ebl 8-vje\u00e7ar. Tash e n\u00ebnt\u00eb vjet i mungon Erion Foniqi, djaloshi e njomaku i tij. I mungon dhe, mungesa e tij akoma \u00ebsht\u00eb prezente tek familjar\u00ebt e tij dhe m\u00eb gjer\u00eb. Pse jo?<\/p>\n<p>Erioni ishte nx\u00ebn\u00ebs i shkoll\u00ebs fillore n\u00eb fshatin n\u00eb fjal\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb marsi (18 mars 2009), gjer sa ai kthehej nga shkolla, n\u00eb rrug\u00eb i dalin nj\u00eb turm\u00eb qensh, t\u00eb cilit trupin e tij ia shqyejn\u00eb dhe ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb copa-copa. Kjo dat\u00eb ishte m\u00eb 18 marsin e vitit 2009. Dat\u00eb e dhimbshme dhe e paharruar. Pra, tash e 9 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ai (Erion Foniqi) sapo kishte filluar t\u2019i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb shkronjat shqipe. E nisi shkollimin me vullnet. Shkonte n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe u kthente plot gaz jete. Por, akoma nuk kishte arritur ta b\u00ebj\u00eb ndonj\u00eb foto t\u00eb fundvitit me shok\u00ebt e klas\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Tek Erioni v\u00ebrehej nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb komunikues dhe shum\u00eb i af\u00ebrt me shok\u00eb. Ai rritej ngadal\u00eb dhe \u201cpiqej\u201d nga prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb e donin shum\u00eb. E donin, sepse ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb i dashur dhe i zgjuar. E donin pa mas\u00eb, si n\u00ebna Elmazja, bij\u00eb e Nasal\u00ebs, po ashtu e donte edhe babai Shabani, prindi i tij nga Kara\u00e7eva. Por, ja si ngjau me jet\u00ebn e tij. Jet\u00ebn ia mor\u00ebn qent\u00eb endacak\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i dol\u00ebn n\u00eb rrug\u00eb dhe e kafshuan p\u00ebr ta l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb vdekur. Nuk ka dhimbje m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe se kjo tragjedi q\u00eb i ngjau Erionit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Nuk ka dhe, nuk do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb kishte m\u00eb k\u00ebsofar\u00eb tragjedish t\u00eb dhimbshme. Kjo vdekje para kohe e tij, la dhimbje, trauma, lot\u00eb dhe kujtime t\u00eb paharruara, t\u00eb cilat dhembje po ndjehen edhe sot e p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb familjen e tij.<\/p>\n<p>E, prind\u00ebrit e tij, nga ky rast tragjik dhe shum\u00eb i preksh\u00ebm, ik\u00ebn n\u00eb Franc\u00eb nga frika se mos po ngjan edhe ndonj\u00eb \u201crast\u201d i till\u00eb edhe tek dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb si viktima t\u00eb qen\u00ebve endacak\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lokaliteti.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb at\u00eb dit\u00eb varrimi t\u00eb Erionit, mori pjes\u00eb edhe autori i k\u00ebtyre radh\u00ebve. Nga af\u00ebr ka par\u00eb se si t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt qanin, vajtonin dhe s\u2019pati njeri q\u00eb nuk derdhi lot\u00eb. Ishin k\u00ebta lot\u00eb e dhimbjes s\u00eb madhe. Aty, n\u00eb varrim erdh\u00ebn me qindra e mij\u00ebra qytetar\u00eb nga mbar\u00eb Kosova.<\/p>\n<p>Nga ky rast i r\u00ebnd\u00eb, mezi dilnin fjal\u00ebt ngush\u00eblluese, sepse dhimbja e madhe dhe tragjike ua kishte mbyllur goj\u00ebn. Tash fjal\u00ebt heshtnin, lot\u00ebt shkonin zvarr\u2026 Qytetar\u00ebt afroheshin dhe n\u00ebnshkruheshin para fytyr\u00ebs s\u00eb Erionit p\u00ebr t\u2019ia dh\u00ebn\u00eb lamtumir\u00ebn e fundit duke u shprehur: \u201cO zot, ruajna nga kjo e keqe\u201d! Ju prind\u00ebr, durojeni dhimbjen, se sot e keni m\u00eb s\u00eb r\u00ebndi. Zoti ju ndihmoft\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dhe, sa her\u00eb vijn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e Erionit n\u00eb vendlindje, Kara\u00e7ev\u00eb, atyre nuk u ndalet loti. Nuk shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pa u kthyer tek varri i djalit t\u00eb tyre, Erionit, ku n\u00eb p\u00ebllak\u00ebn p\u00ebrkujtimore shkruhen k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb:<br \/>\n\u201d\u00c7do vit pranvera sjell lule, por te ne sjell kujtimin e asaj dite t\u00eb zez\u00eb, kur vdekja t\u00eb mori duke shkuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Humbja jote \u00ebsht\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb nuk sh\u00ebrohet kurr\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shaban Foniqi, prindi i Erionit, sot shton: \u201cSa her\u00eb vij n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, zemra m\u00eb lig\u00ebshtohet dhe ndjehem shum\u00eb keq. Keq, p\u00ebr faktin se, nuk ka m\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb se djali 8-vje\u00e7ar t\u00eb mungoj\u00eb. Sot Erioni im do t\u2019i kishte 17-vje\u00e7. Ai sot do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb shkollar i mir\u00eb, k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb e prisja qysh nga mosha e re e tij. Por, ja vdekjes s\u2019mundet njeriu t\u2019i dal\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Ajo t\u00eb merr dhe kur nuk e mendon se vjen. \u00cbsht\u00eb vdekje pa adres\u00eb. Por, kjo vdekje m\u00eb ka \u201ckrijuar\u201d shum\u00eb dhimbje trupi. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vdekje tragjike dhe shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Po m\u00eb duket se nuk ka \u201cila\u00e7\u201d t\u00eb m\u00eb sh\u00ebroj\u00eb, por po mundohem \u00e7do dit\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhimbje ta lagoj nga vetja. O Zot! \u2013 nuk paska m\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb se kjo q\u00eb i ngjau djalit tim, i cili tash e 9-t\u00eb vjet na mungon. E pat\u00ebm t\u00eb parin e jet\u00ebs. E rrit\u00ebm si drit\u00ebn e syve, por \u2026<\/p>\n<p>Pas k\u00ebsaj tragjedie, e mbyll\u00ebm sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe me dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tjer\u00eb ik\u00ebn n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e jashtme. Tani jetoj n\u00eb Franc\u00eb ku kam k\u00ebrkuar azil, sepse nuk mundem t\u00eb jetoj k\u00ebtu, sepse akoma m\u00eb jan\u00eb dhembjet dhe traumat e k\u00ebsaj \u201cngjarje\u201d tragjike dhe fatale n\u00eb familjen time. Por, edhe pas k\u00ebsaj jete, un\u00eb, sa her\u00eb vij n\u00eb p\u00ebrvjetor\u00ebt e k\u00ebtij rasti tragjik, nuk shkoj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por kthehem te varri i Erionit tim q\u00eb mungon dhe \u201cprehem\u201d duke u shkri n\u00eb vaj. Nuk paska m\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb se ta p\u00ebrjetosh nj\u00eb tragjedi t\u00eb till\u00eb, e cila m\u00eb ka shkaktuar dhembje dhe trauma jete. Por, njeriu qenka m\u00eb i fort\u00eb se guri, jeta duhet t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thon\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pjesa m\u00eb e dhimbshme e njeriut. Ata jan\u00eb shpirti dhe zemra e prind\u00ebrve. Jan\u00eb e ardhmja e njeriut. S\u2019ka pasuri m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt ta shtojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb ndaj pun\u00ebs e jet\u00ebs. T\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb krenar n\u00eb bot\u00eb. P\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit japin jet\u00ebn. Pra, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasuria m\u00eb e madhe dhe m\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13306,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-13305","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13305","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13305"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13305\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13306"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13305"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13305"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13305"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}