\u201cKa grua q\u00eb i ka f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb nj\u00eb gjinie m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe e d\u00ebshiron edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e gjinis\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\u2026dhe me pun\u00ebn time shum\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00eb i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb me gjinin\u00eb q\u00eb e duan\u201d, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb deklarata e kund\u00ebrligjshme e nj\u00eb gjinekologu n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Kjo vie si shkak q\u00eb mozaiku i familjes n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb ende nuk konsiderohet i plot\u00eb n\u00ebse familja nuk e ka nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. <\/p>\n
Metoda alternative mjek\u00ebsore por edhe t\u00eb tilla shkencore po aplikohen nga grat\u00eb q\u00eb duan t\u00eb lindin f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb mashkullore, p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr se Ligji p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin riprodhues, neni 23, tek veprimtarit\u00eb e ndaluara n\u00eb l\u00ebmin e riprodhimit t\u00eb asistuar ndalon p\u00ebrzgjedhjen e gjinis\u00eb. <\/p>\n
Pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, jan\u00eb kryesisht mjek\u00ebt specialist\u00eb gjinekolog\u00eb ata q\u00eb po ndihmojn\u00eb k\u00ebto gra n\u00eb gjetjen e nj\u00eb zgjidhjeje p\u00ebr selektim gjinie, q\u00eb pos e kund\u00ebrligjshme \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe e d\u00ebnueshme. <\/p>\n
\u201cP\u00ebrfundimisht kam vendos\u00eb me e bo nj\u00eb send q\u00eb ndoshta logjikisht me mjek\u00ebsi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e lejueshme\u201d, shprehet nj\u00eb N\u00ebn\u00eb e cila n\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr emisionin Udh\u00ebve n\u00eb RTK, tregon se \u00e7far\u00eb metodash p\u00ebrdori q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnte selektimin e gjinis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cAi q\u00eb ma ka bo mu ka qen\u00eb gjinekolog, rrotullimi i anit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, ajo ka qen\u00eb definitivja q\u00eb e kam bo, se ka qen\u00eb ani n\u00eb an\u00ebn e vajzave, sipas gjinekologut\u201d, thot\u00eb ajo n\u00eb forme anonime. <\/p>\n
Pas lindjes s\u00eb 5 vajzave, k\u00ebsaj N\u00ebne iu shtua presioni nga rrethi q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. P\u00ebrkund\u00ebr d\u00ebshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, bashk\u00ebshorti i saj nuk kishte ndryshuar sjelljen n\u00eb raport me t\u00eb e as nuk i b\u00ebnte presion gruas. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, \u00e7iftit iu plot\u00ebsua d\u00ebshira.<\/p>\n
\u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb qe kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb planifikim familjar por t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb ardhur me nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb, d.m.th i kam 6 f\u00ebmij\u00eb, 5 vajza dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, dhe jam shum\u00eb e lumtur\u201d, shprehet ajo. <\/p>\n
\u201c\u2026 pas 5 vajzave e kam djalin\u201d, vazhdon rr\u00ebfimin N\u00ebna e cila tregon se deri n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb kishte vendos\u00eb t\u00eb kishte edhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, nuk kishte tentuar t\u00eb provonte as nj\u00eb metode t\u00eb p\u00ebrfolur nga t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit, p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb pasurit nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. <\/p>\n
\u201cDeri sa kam vendos\u00eb me e pas\u00eb djalin pas 5 vajzave, nuk kam qen\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt as n\u00eb mjek as s\u2019kom provu\u2026 kam shku n\u00eb mjek\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, s\u2019kam lan\u00eb vend pa shku, kam shku n\u00ebp\u00ebr mjek\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb thirrur p\u00ebr at\u00eb pun\u00eb\u201d. <\/p>\n
Me ligjet n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, selektimi i gjinis\u00eb s\u00eb frytit \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndaluar rrept\u00ebsisht dhe paraqet vep\u00ebr penale.<\/p>\n
Nga rr\u00ebfimi i k\u00ebsaj gruaje kuptohet se kishte mjek\u00eb q\u00eb shkel\u00ebn ligjin duke u dor\u00ebzuar karshi zakoneve patriarkale. K\u00ebt\u00eb sigurisht se e b\u00ebnin n\u00eb kund\u00ebrvler\u00eb parash, duke ju premtuar \u00e7ifteve q\u00eb do t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb mashkullore.<\/p>\n
\u201cMua me kan\u00eb preferu edhe ineksione t\u00eb ndryshme edhe me shku me u ngjesh\u00eb edhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme, por nuk kam pranu, e vetmja nd\u00ebrhyrje q\u00eb kam bo un\u00eb me mujt\u00eb me e bo nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, ka qen\u00eb rrotullimi i anit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs\u201d.<\/p>\n
Gruaja q\u00eb ka pranuar t\u00eb flas\u00eb p\u00ebr emisionin Udh\u00ebve vet\u00ebm n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb anonime tregon se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja q\u00eb nga gjinekologu i \u00ebsht\u00eb rekomanduar metoda alternative mjek\u00ebsore p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbetur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cUn\u00eb tu u bazu n\u00eb raste m\u00eb perpara, qe kan\u00eb pas sukses edhe un\u00eb kam dasht\u00eb me provu\u2026 kam edhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm t\u00eb mia q\u00eb jan\u00eb detyru p\u00ebr shkak edhe t\u00eb kushteve q\u00eb dojn\u00eb me e pas edhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, i kan\u00eb dy-tri vajza edhe s\u2019dojn\u00eb me e zgjat\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb por provojn\u00eb metoda\u201d.<\/p>\n
Tema e selektimit t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb tem\u00eb tabu. Megjith\u00ebse ligjet ndalojn\u00eb selektimin gjinor, kjo tem\u00eb mbet\u00ebt nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb diskutuarat nd\u00ebrmjet grave n\u00eb rrjete sociale. Madje, rekomandohen edhe emra mjek\u00ebsh q\u00eb kryejn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb. <\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb Riza Malaj, gjinekolog nga Skenderaj q\u00eb i prin\u00eb list\u00ebs s\u00eb mjek\u00ebve q\u00eb nuk heziton t\u00eb flas\u00eb p\u00ebr emisionin Udh\u00ebve p\u00ebr k\u00ebrkesat e m\u00ebdha q\u00eb ai ka nga \u00e7iftet p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb me djal\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cTash, m\u00eb shum\u00eb ka k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr gjini, se sa p\u00ebr tjerat gj\u00ebra, i ka 3-4 vajza dhe e don edhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, ose e kund\u00ebrta por ma rrall\u00eb\u201d, thot\u00eb doktori Malaj.<\/p>\n
Ai thot\u00eb se ka metoda mjek\u00ebsore t\u00eb cilat n\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi kan\u00eb pasur sukses sipas tij n\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktimin e gjinis\u00eb. <\/p>\n
\u201c\u2026disa metoda q\u00eb kan\u00eb kall\u00ebzu sukses\u2026 80% t\u00eb rasteve q\u00eb i marr e di rastin q\u00eb di me e mjeku edhe kan\u00eb sukses, kan\u00eb djal\u00eb\u2026 jan\u00eb t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta numri i pacient\u00ebve q\u00eb i kam bo me djal\u00eb\u201d, thot\u00eb me krenari Malaj.<\/p>\n
Gjinekologu Malaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm se nj\u00eb veprim i till\u00eb i selektimit gjinor \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndaluar me ligj por ai thot\u00eb se k\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebrkesave dhe d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb \u00e7ifteve p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb dy gjinive.<\/p>\n
\u201cP\u00ebrcaktimi i gjinis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndaluar, dihet, edhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e lejume\u2026 por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndonj\u00eb metod\u00eb q\u00eb lyp\u00eb me u stopu, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr gjini\u201d, shprehet ai. <\/p>\n
\u201cTash vijn\u00eb edhe prej lindjes s\u00eb par\u00eb, e kan\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn gjini edhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb me e pas gjinin\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\u201d, tregon Malaj p\u00ebr llojet e pacienteve q\u00eb trajton. Ai thot\u00eb se p\u00ebrve\u00e7 djalit, p\u00ebr gjinin\u00eb tjet\u00ebr nuk ka k\u00ebrkesa t\u00eb shpeshta.<\/p>\n
\u201cP\u00ebr vajza shum\u00eb ma rrall\u00eb, zakonisht lypin djem\u201d.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebna e cila tregoi se ishte mjekuar te disa gjinekolog\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se kishte t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb i kishin propozuar edhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e fertilizimit artificial p\u00ebr mbetje shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb shikojeni emisionin e plot\u00eb:<\/p>\n