S\u00eb pari, b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb mitur, B.J, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb i ri q\u00eb synon t\u00eb zhvillohet si futbollist, jo t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb mbi supe barr\u00ebn e ndjeshm\u00ebris\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore e etnike. Ekspozimi publik i emrit t\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb tij etnike, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyrje e panevojshme n\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn personale e profesionale t\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb riu q\u00eb sapo ka nisur rrug\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n
S\u00eb dyti, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb kosovare vet\u00eb termi “magjup” ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim kompleks, por edhe kontradiktor. N\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, kjo fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret si form\u00eb fyese p\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00e7muar dik\u00eb, shpesh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb raciste ndaj komunitetit rom. Por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, p\u00ebrdoret edhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb naive apo “p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel\u00ebse”, sidomos ndaj vajzave me pamje zeshkane, pa vet\u00ebdije p\u00ebr ngarkes\u00ebn diskriminuese q\u00eb mbart. Ky banalizim tregon munges\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb edukimi kulturor dhe etnik, e jo domosdoshm\u00ebrish urrejtje t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijshme. B.J, \u201cmagjup\u201d i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb qytetar, jo nj\u00eb grup qytetar\u00ebsh. Ky qytetar nuk e p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson ask\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n
Rasti i B.J ilustron pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebt\u00eb padije: ai \u00ebsht\u00eb ashkali, jo rom. Pse t\u00eb b\u00ebhet debat dhe lajm fjalosja nd\u00ebrmjet dy personave. N\u00eb publik \u00e7\u2019 kas ka. Dhe kur nj\u00eb fyerje me adresim etnik b\u00ebhet ndaj nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb nuk i takon atij grupi etnik, at\u00ebher\u00eb kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm me diskriminim, por me nj\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb t\u00eb padijes, q\u00eb sjell p\u00ebrplasje t\u00eb panevojshme dhe krijon tension aty ku duhet reflektim. Pse me u ndie \u201cmagjup\u201d B.J kur ai \u00ebsht\u00eb ashkali?
\nA do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo se ofendimi nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi? Aspak. Por reagimi nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nd\u00ebshkimi publik i individit, por edukimi i t\u00eb gjith\u00eb komunitetit sportiv dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb m\u00eb gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb etnike, dallimet kulturore dhe respektin ndaj tjetrit. Mediat do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb kontribuonin n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb edukim, jo t\u00eb krijonin histori q\u00eb zmadhojn\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb e humbasin thelbin e saj. I b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb famshme \u201ckopaqkat e magjupit\u201d n\u00ebn intensitetin e euforis\u00eb duke u \u201cvajtuar\u201d B.J si viktim\u00eb n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00ebsohej n\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb suksesi si yll i Fush\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, B.J duhet t\u00eb mbahet mend p\u00ebr talentin e tij n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e gjelb\u00ebr, jo p\u00ebr nj\u00eb incident verbal q\u00eb nuk ka pas as kontekst t\u00eb qart\u00eb as adresim t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. B.J duhet me tregu veten si\u00e7 po e tregon brenda vijave t\u00eb bardha, jo n\u00ebp\u00ebr studiot televizive ku nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb teren i tij. Aty e ka t\u00eb humbur \u00e7do ndeshje.<\/p>\n
B.J, vazhdo me luajt top, mos u merr me media. Je qytetar i Kosov\u00ebs s\u00eb lir\u00eb ku ke mund\u00ebsi me luajt top nat\u00ebn dhe dit\u00ebn. Ti e din q\u00eb \u201cmagjup\u201d i thon\u00eb edhe shqiptar\u00ebt shqiptar\u00ebve q\u00eb jan\u00eb zeshkan.<\/p>\n
B.J, pasi q\u00eb i p\u00ebrket shoq\u00ebris\u00eb kosovare, duhet ta dish pak historin\u00eb e bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, q\u00eb an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e komunitetit t\u00ebnd dhe komunitetit rom, bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e mi n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn 1989 \u2013 1999 kan\u00eb luajt bashk\u00eb me bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e komunitetit serb \u201cshkiet\u201d n\u00ebp\u00ebr palestra dhe stadiume n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn. Ju krejt komunitetet bashk\u00eb, paraardh\u00ebsit e tu, n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb keni pas b\u00ebr\u00eb 3 %, aq sa b\u00ebni edhe sot. Nd\u00ebrsa ne, shqiptar\u00ebt, q\u00eb b\u00ebnim 97 %, af\u00ebrisht kaq edhe sot, kemi pas luajt top n\u00ebp\u00ebr ara dhe rrug\u00eb. Qe qysh ka ndryshu koha. N\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn e lir\u00eb por, me mbi 1000 probleme bazike, ti dhe shum\u00eb si ti trajtoheni ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, madje keni t\u00eb drejta dhe liri kushtetuese t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. E qysh u b\u00eb B.J, ju edhe n\u00eb at\u00eb sistem dhe n\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn e lir\u00eb me pas mir\u00eb? Pra, g\u00ebzoju liris\u00eb q\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebn e kan\u00eb paguar shum\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb, mos u anko shum\u00eb. Ti, je i privilegjuar i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb kosovare, sepse, Ahtisari, me kushtetut\u00ebn aktuale t\u00eb ka krijuar status t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Mos u hat\u00ebro kaq shum\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb shikues euforik t\u00eb paska th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cmagjup\u201d. Hiqu gazetar\u00ebve. N\u00eb Kosov\u00eb nuk ka raciz\u00ebm. Nuk ka pas as kur na kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cshiptari\u201d. Kur luan top dije q\u00eb t\u00eb shajn\u00eb, ofendojn\u00eb, nga pak edhe t\u00eb sulmojn\u00eb sepse e till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb veprimtaria sportive gjithandej bot\u00ebs. E kan\u00eb sulmuar dhe shar\u00eb Maradon\u00ebn, Vokrrin, Mesin, Ronaldon, edhe ty t\u00eb vjen rendi. B.J i ri je dhe shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb je i ri dhe i ke gjasat me u b\u00eb yll i topit. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb me arrite n\u00eb top. Edhe Yamal-in ja kan\u00eb nis\u00eb me sha nga pak. Ai po u p\u00ebrgjigjet n\u00eb fush\u00eb. Hulumto pak p\u00ebr Myrto Ozunin n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. \u00c7ka ke ti m\u00eb shum\u00eb se Myrto Ozuni. Luaj top dhe mbaje kok\u00ebn ulur dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebt n\u00eb tok\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb duartrokasin n\u00ebn nofk\u00ebn sa i mir\u00eb \u201cmagjupi\u201d.<\/p>\n
Kjo fam\u00eb nuk t\u00eb duhet. P\u00ebrkundrazi t\u00eb d\u00ebmton. Ty t\u00eb duhet arritje konkrete. Ty t\u00eb duhet fama prej futbollisti ku flitet p\u00ebr ty, p\u00ebr talentin t\u00ebnd, jo ku flitet p\u00ebr prejardhjen t\u00ebnde etnike dhe t\u00eb jepet nj\u00eb lloj mb\u00ebshtetje nga m\u00ebshira dhe keqardhja. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm e momentit.<\/p>\n
Shikuesit brohorasin, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe shajn\u00eb e ofendojn\u00ebn, por, ti B.J luaj top dhe sh\u00ebno gola. Ty t\u00eb duhet fama reale, jo fama e \u201ckopaqkave t\u00eb magjupit\u201d.<\/p>\n
B.J, t\u00eb uroj shum\u00eb suksese n\u00eb karrier\u00ebn amatore. Shpresoj shum\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh lojtar profesionist dhe ky\u00e7 i ekipit: P\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesja e Kosov\u00ebs n\u00eb futboll.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
S\u00eb pari, b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb mitur, B.J, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb i ri q\u00eb synon t\u00eb zhvillohet si futbollist, jo t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb mbi supe barr\u00ebn e ndjeshm\u00ebris\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore e etnike. Ekspozimi publik i emrit t\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb tij etnike, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyrje e panevojshme n\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn personale e profesionale t\u00eb nj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":202298,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-202296","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-opinion"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/202296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=202296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/202296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/202298"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=202296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=202296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=202296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}