N\u00eb vitet 2014\/15, nj\u00eb koalicion qeveritar p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, n\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim me Ministrin\u00eb e Pun\u00ebs dhe Mir\u00ebqenies Sociale, me p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues t\u00eb Komisioneve Parlamentare, m\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues t\u00eb Qendrave Sociale n\u00eb nivel vendi, me zyrtar\u00eb p\u00ebr barazi gjinore, me p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues t\u00eb OJQ-ve t\u00eb huaja dhe vendore, kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje q\u00eb t\u00eb hartojn\u00eb nj\u00eb draft, q\u00eb do t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohej n\u00eb Ligjin p\u00ebr t\u00eb Drejtat e F\u00ebmij\u00ebve, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00ebn her\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebtij grupi kam qen\u00eb edhe un\u00eb.
\nShkruan: Arb\u00ebresh\u00eb Kryeziu \u2013 Hyseni<\/p>\n
Pavar\u00ebsisht takimeve t\u00eb shumta punuese, d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb realizohej, pun\u00ebs s\u00eb palodhshme t\u00eb krejt k\u00ebtyre p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesve q\u00eb kjo nism\u00eb t\u00eb qohej deri n\u00eb fund, ne akoma as sot nuk kemi nj\u00eb Ligj p\u00ebr t\u00eb Drejtat e F\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Thirremi n\u00eb Ligjin p\u00ebr Familjen si dhe n\u00eb Konventa Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare. N\u00eb seanc\u00ebn e 8-t\u00eb, t\u00eb Kuvendit Komunal, q\u00eb u mbajt m\u00eb 26 korrik 2018, u diskutua edhe p\u00ebr Strategjin\u00eb dhe Planin e Veprimit t\u00eb F\u00ebmij\u00ebve (2018\/21), e cila u hodh m\u00eb pas n\u00eb votim nga kryesuesja, me propozimin q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb marrin asistenc\u00eb sociale, t\u00eb ofrohet mund\u00ebsia e edukimit pa pages\u00eb n\u00eb institucione parashkollore, q\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb na doli t\u00eb kish qen\u00eb \u201ciniciative\u201d individuale e nj\u00eb an\u00ebtare t\u00eb Kuvendit, gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kam kuptuar q\u00eb jan\u00eb befasuar edhe vet an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e Komitetit p\u00ebr Kultur\u00eb, Rini dhe Sport.<\/p>\n
Kjo strategji, kaloi me 29 vota p\u00ebr dhe 1 abstenim. M\u00eb von\u00eb, kam par\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb rrjete sociale, te nj\u00eb an\u00ebtare e Kuvendit, kan\u00eb qarkullua urime p\u00ebr \u201ciniciativ\u00ebn\u201d, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebsaj t\u00eb fundit, i ka interesua vet\u00ebm t\u2019i mbaj\u00eb t\u00eb informuar ndjek\u00ebsit e vet me at\u00eb q\u00eb \u201cparamendojeni, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e re nuk e ka votuar k\u00ebt\u00eb iniciative\u201d.<\/p>\n
Seancat jan\u00eb live, \u00e7do kush mundet me na pa e p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb lidhur me secilin q\u00ebndrim tonin. Edhe tash n\u00ebse hyni n\u00eb faqe t\u00eb komun\u00ebs dhe k\u00ebrkoni t\u00eb ndiqni seanc\u00ebn e korrikut, e gjeni pa problem. Sepse ato nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb fshehta, \u00e7ka n\u00ebnkupton q\u00eb, t\u00eb gjitha q\u00ebndrimet tona jan\u00eb publike.<\/p>\n
Prandaj, publike ka qene edhe abstenimi im, me arsye mjaft t\u00eb qarta dhe konkrete. Un\u00eb parimisht jam p\u00ebr, por kam abstenuar, sepse strategjia nuk ka qen\u00eb e kompletuar, ka pasur mang\u00ebsi dhe nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u punuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019u plot\u00ebsuar, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nga dy an\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb komitetit \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb zyrtarja p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nuk ka qen\u00eb prezent n\u00eb hartimin e strategjis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Arsye tjet\u00ebr ka qene se na u k\u00ebrkua ta votonim parimisht, e me pas te punohet aty ku ka nevoje p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrhyrje, shprehi kjo p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e kam th\u00ebn\u00eb disa her\u00eb q\u00eb nuk jam p\u00ebr. Kam abstenuar m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti, sepse kjo \u201ciniciative\u201d, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i sh\u00ebrbyer f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, p\u00ebr t\u2019i ofruar qasje atyre, por \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar pik\u00eb, nj\u00eb person i caktuar.<\/p>\n
Madje, si n\u00ebn\u00eb vet q\u00eb jam, jam ndjer\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht keq, kur kam d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret termi \u201c p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb as nj\u00eb buk\u00eb goje\u201d. A e paramendoni si mund te jet\u00eb ndjer\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb jeton dhe rrit\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj n\u00eb kushte t\u00eb r\u00ebnda sociale? Sepse instinkti i t\u00eb qenurit i ndjesh\u00ebm ndaj k\u00ebtyre \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve, nuk i ndodh\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb n\u00ebne, por n\u00eb kushte normale, do t\u00eb duhej t\u2019i ndodhte \u00e7do kujt q\u00eb e konsideron veten human dhe tregon kujdes ndaj rasteve t\u00eb tilla.<\/p>\n
Prandaj, k\u00ebrkesa ime ka qen\u00eb q\u00eb mos t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzohen k\u00ebto raste, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitime personale. \u00c7ka ndodh\u00eb tash? Sot, b\u00ebhen 2 muaj e dy dite q\u00eb kur u miratua kjo iniciativ\u00eb. Te m\u00ebrkur\u00ebn, un\u00eb kam vizituar pes\u00eb institucione private t\u00eb edukimit parashkollor\u00eb, q\u00eb funksionojn\u00eb me licenc\u00eb n\u00eb qytetin ton\u00eb : Anisa, Qiriazi, Nushet, Hello dhe Fjolla. Asnj\u00ebr\u00ebn nga k\u00ebto kopshte nuk e ka vizituar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb askush nga an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e Kuvendit Komunal, nuk ka biseduar askush me ta dhe aq m\u00eb pak nuk ka ardhur asnj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr akomodimin e ndonj\u00eb f\u00ebmije me rast social, brenda ambienteve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb, Ligji nr.02\/L-52, Ligji p\u00ebr Edukimin Parashkollor\u00eb, neni 24 pika 2, thot\u00eb q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb marrin ndihm\u00eb sociale, do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb liruar nga tarifat. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, q\u00eb sipas konfirmimit t\u00eb drejtorit t\u00eb Qendr\u00ebs p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb Sociale n\u00eb Gjilan, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e rasteve sociale, n\u00ebnave vetushqyese dhe veteraneve t\u00eb luft\u00ebs, vijojn\u00eb \u00e7erdhet publike, pa pages\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb madje e konfirmoi edhe Drejtori i Sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsis\u00eb, Selami Xhemajli, gjat\u00eb seanc\u00ebs se korrikut, i cili po ashtu tha se me t\u00eb asnj\u00eb an\u00ebtar\u00eb i Kuvendit nuk ka pasur takim sa i p\u00ebrket k\u00ebsaj \u00e7\u00ebshtje, nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si\u00e7 m\u00eb ka konfirmuar edhe asistentja e Qendr\u00ebs p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb Sociale, q\u00eb askush nga an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e Kuvendit nuk ka ardhur p\u00ebr tu interesuar p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje, nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si\u00e7 edhe ma kan\u00eb konfirmuar edukatoret e \u00e7erdheve private.<\/p>\n
Pra, sot b\u00ebhen dy muaj e dy dite q\u00eb kur u miratua kjo \u201ciniciative\u201d dhe akoma asnj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i kategoris\u00eb s\u00eb rasteve sociale, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebrguar n\u00eb \u00e7erdhet private, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb pretenduar se do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb Gjilan ka nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb konsideruesh\u00ebm t\u00eb familjeve me gjendje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb ekonomike dhe n\u00ebse ky do t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb q\u00ebllimi, un\u00eb jam m\u00eb se e sigurt se n\u00ebse jo m\u00eb shum\u00eb, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre tre muajve do ta kishit gjetur. Prandaj, qytetar\u00eb t\u00eb nderuar, un\u00eb kam abstenuar lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb iniciative, sepse e kam dit\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb kjo. Sepse kam qen\u00eb m\u00eb se e sigurt, q\u00eb e gjitha ka qen\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr interesa personale politike dhe se viktima edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb ka qen\u00eb qytetari, q\u00eb p\u00ebr fat rastis\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb kushte t\u00eb r\u00ebnda dhe t\u00eb shpresoj\u00eb n\u00eb iniciativa t\u00eb personave egoist, q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb n\u00eb kurriz t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
E, gjate seanc\u00ebs, kjo asambleiste filloi t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr iniciativat e veta tjera bamir\u00ebse, \u00e7ka nuk u nd\u00ebrlidh\u00eb aspak me diskutimin tim, sepse t\u00eb gjitha q\u00eb un\u00eb i thash\u00eb pranoi, prandaj nuk pati \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
\u00c7do iniciativ\u00eb e mir\u00eb, pa marr\u00eb parasysh e kujt \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr tu p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetur. Por, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur keq \u00e7far\u00eb devijimi arrihet t\u00eb b\u00ebhet, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitime politike.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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