M\u00eb habisin reagimet e disa prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr festimet e Halloween-it n\u00ebp\u00ebr shkolla nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Le q\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e tyre as nuk e din\u00eb se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb e \u00e7\u2019kuptim kan\u00eb shp\u00ebrfytyrimet q\u00eb krijesat e Zotit i b\u00ebjn\u00eb vetes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb, por edhe ata q\u00eb e din\u00eb, nja dy dit\u00eb para, i d\u00ebgjon tek thon\u00eb: \u201cA thua, \u00e7ka jan\u00eb k\u00ebto festa q\u00eb i kan\u00eb saju?!\u201d Pastaj, kur vjen dita, t\u00eb gjendur n\u00ebn presionin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve (e tmerrshme kur e mendon k\u00ebt\u00eb fakt!), justifikohen po vet\u00eb, e thon\u00eb: \u2013 Hajt mo, po ia blej nj\u00eb mask\u00eb se s\u2019u b\u00eb nami! \u2013 Hajt mo, po ia vizatoj pak fytyr\u00ebn, se mos t\u2019ndahet nga shok\u00ebt! \u2013 Hajt mo, se f\u00ebmij\u00eb jan\u00eb! \u201cHajt mo\u201d k\u00ebt\u00eb e \u201chajt mo\u201d at\u00eb\u2026
\nHistorikisht kemi ecur me \u201chajt mo!\u201d, prandaj edhe jemi k\u00ebta q\u00eb jemi…<\/p>\n
Halloween tani p\u00ebr tani mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e futur artificialisht, por me k\u00ebt\u00eb rit\u00ebm t\u00eb friksh\u00ebm q\u00eb po imponohet vit pas viti, nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndonj\u00eb hata e madhe q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, kjo far\u00eb maskarade t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrmasat e nj\u00eb feste shtet\u00ebrore. Jam v\u00ebrtet e shqet\u00ebsuar q\u00eb kjo lloj prirjeje e shp\u00ebrfytyrimit imazhor p\u00ebr at\u00eb dit\u00eb, po promovohet vit pas viti nga shkollat dhe m\u00ebsuesit. Jan\u00eb vet\u00eb k\u00ebta t\u00eb fundit q\u00eb po i parap\u00ebrgatisin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb p\u00ebr atmosfer\u00ebn e asaj dite, p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si duhet t\u00eb paraqiten e t\u00eb vishen. E k\u00ebshtu, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e shkret\u00eb ngrejn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb familje t\u00eb t\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb kostumet e ve\u00e7anta q\u00eb na u dashkan p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb \u201cperformanc\u00eb\u201d t\u00eb denj\u00eb. Personalisht nuk jam aspak kund\u00ebr festimeve, por n\u00ebse u dashka t\u00eb festohet me patjet\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb shtes\u00eb p\u00ebrtej festave aktuale, at\u00ebher\u00eb le t\u00eb shpiket nj\u00eb fest\u00eb, ku t\u2019i b\u00ebhet jehon\u00eb mir\u00ebsis\u00eb e vlerave, e jo t\u00eb festohet p\u00ebr shpirtra purgatorian\u00eb n\u00ebn nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb shp\u00ebrfytyrimesh.<\/p>\n
M\u00ebsuesve t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb, q\u00eb i kam miq k\u00ebtu, u them dashamir\u00ebsisht: T\u00eb dashur, ju keni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe mbi supe. Ju u jepni ushqimin e p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm trunor dhe shpirt\u00ebror f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb. Duke qen\u00eb kaq t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, juve ju takon t\u00eb b\u00ebheni promovues t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta e t\u00eb mira, e t\u2019u thoni \u201cJo\u201d k\u00ebtyre trendeve t\u00eb s\u00eb keqes, q\u00eb po fitojn\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb terren nd\u00ebr ne. Ju e dini m\u00eb s\u00eb miri, se nj\u00eb brez i rritur dhe i edukuar me t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e vler\u00ebn e saj, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb nj\u00eb e ardhme m\u00eb e mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vend.
\nPrind\u00ebrve t\u00eb dashur, miqve t\u00eb mi, q\u00eb ashtu sikurse edhe un\u00eb mund t\u00eb vihen n\u00eb pozita t\u00eb sikletshme duke u detyruar madje n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb rast q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i \u00e7ojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dit\u00ebn e Halloween-it, u them p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsisht: T\u00eb dashur, n\u00ebse duam t\u00eb rrisim f\u00ebmij\u00eb me vlera t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, me festa t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb (qofshin ato fetare apo historike), at\u00ebher\u00eb ne nuk duhet t\u00eb biem pre\u2019 e presionit t\u00eb turm\u00ebs, e cila na dikton t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb gj\u00ebje t\u00eb pakuptimt\u00eb. Me qet\u00ebsi dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje, ne duhet t\u2019ua shpjegojm\u00eb edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb kuptimin e pakuptimt\u00eb t\u00eb festimeve t\u00eb tilla.
\nMiqve t\u00eb dashur q\u00eb jan\u00eb totalisht indiferent\u00eb ndaj \u00e7\u00ebshtjes n\u00eb fjal\u00eb e q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se ca festime m\u00eb shum\u00eb s\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb keq askujt, u them sinqerisht: \u00c7do festim e ka nj\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie, e \u00e7do dometh\u00ebnie rr\u00ebnjoset thell\u00eb brenda njeriut. Ne duhet ta vler\u00ebsojm\u00eb me kujdes simbolik\u00ebn e gjith\u00e7kaje q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb, sepse edhe vet\u00eb festat e festimi ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb konsiderueshme n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e karakterit t\u00eb tyre si dhe n\u00eb mend\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb m\u00ebpasme.<\/p>\n
Me respekt,
\nNazmije Demolli-Kastrati
\nKoordinatore e NJKDNJ-s\u00eb, nj\u00ebherit
\nKryetare e K\u00ebshillit t\u00eb Prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr Regjionin e Gjilanit<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u00eb habisin reagimet e disa prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr festimet e Halloween-it n\u00ebp\u00ebr shkolla nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Le q\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e tyre as nuk e din\u00eb se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb e \u00e7\u2019kuptim kan\u00eb shp\u00ebrfytyrimet q\u00eb krijesat e Zotit i b\u00ebjn\u00eb vetes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb, por edhe ata q\u00eb e din\u00eb, nja dy dit\u00eb para, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":27421,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-27420","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27420","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27420"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27420\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27421"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27420"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27420"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27420"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}