N\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb t\u00eb ftohta t\u00eb janarit, me paralajm\u00ebrimin e grevave t\u00eb m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve fillova t\u00eb kuptoj se kush qenkemi n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Sipas shum\u00eb shkrimeve n\u00eb llogari e tyre t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale kuptova q\u00eb kishim qen\u00eb kriminel\u00eb, t\u00eb paditur,t\u00eb padenj\u00eb, p\u00ebrtac\u00eb e p\u00ebr \u00e7udi sipas nj\u00eb gazetari edhe hara\u00e7xhinj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Shkruan: Ajshe Matoshi<\/p>\n
Krejt i kap\u00ebrdiva disi, duke mos dashur t\u00eb regjistroj n\u00eb kok\u00ebn time e ta mbushi at\u00eb me bro\u00e7kulla t\u00eb llojllojshme, q\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb si virus, ku masa po e hedhin vrerin duke p\u00ebrdor\u00eb sharje e fyerje n\u00eb komentet e tyre q\u00eb bile po zhvillojn\u00eb luft\u00ebra e po fitojn\u00eb beteja dhe shpeshher\u00eb po ngjason n\u00eb aren\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Por kjo fyerja \u201d \u00e7do rritje e pagave p\u00ebr m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe mjek\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte hara\u00e7\u201d, hara\u00e7i disi m\u00eb mbeti n\u00eb fyt e nuk mund t\u00eb rrija goj\u00ebmbyllur pasi q\u00eb i takoj grupit q\u00eb jemi prekur me k\u00ebt\u00eb nofk\u00eb t\u00eb re q\u00eb na mbeti nga kumbara m\u00eb i ri i m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve \u2013 Adriatik Kelmendi.<\/p>\n
Dua t\u00eb shkruaj disa sqarime p\u00ebr shum\u00eb persona q\u00eb e kan\u00eb harres\u00ebn t\u00eb shprehur e p\u00ebr disa q\u00eb nuk duan t\u2019ia din\u00eb fare dhe p\u00ebr disa q\u00eb u ka humb rruga n\u00eb oborr nga kjo situate politike (kaotike) e Kosov\u00ebs t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb mllefosur e nuk mendojn\u00eb se kush na solli deri n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb por me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi mendojn\u00eb se kap\u00ebn fajtor\u00ebt \u2013 m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit q\u00eb rrin\u00eb, nuk punojn\u00eb asgj\u00eb, marrin rroga koti, pushime e festa pa ia ndal\u00eb etj..<\/p>\n
Nisemi nga edukator\u00ebt t\u00eb ciklit parashkollor \u201cK\u00ebta edukator\u00eb q\u00eb nuk punojn\u00eb\u201d, planprogramet i p\u00ebrgatisin vet me kurikula n\u00eb hap me shtetet m\u00eb t\u00eb zhvilluara, ku atje p\u00ebrve\u00e7 q\u00eb pagat i kan\u00eb aq t\u00eb m\u00ebdha sa q\u00eb ne vet\u00ebm n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr mund t\u2019i shohim, infrastruktur\u00ebn shkollore t\u00eb rregulluar n\u00eb at\u00eb mas\u00eb q\u00eb tek ne ngel vet\u00ebm si ideoprojekt, nuk iu mungon materiali dhe mjetet e konkretizimit q\u00eb ua siguron shteti. E si veprojn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto rrethana edukator\u00ebt tan\u00eb?!\u2026<\/p>\n
Shpeshher\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar nj\u00eb projekt iu duhet t\u00eb skuqen para prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb t\u2019iu k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb holla q\u00eb t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb deri te arritja e synimit e shum\u00eb shpesh ndodh\u00eb t\u00eb ndajn\u00eb nga buxheti i tyre por edhe t\u00eb shk\u00ebmbejn\u00eb mjete me koleg\u00eb q\u00eb i bartin nga sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e tyre apo i huazojn\u00eb diku si\u00e7 jan\u00eb llaptop\u00ebt e projektor\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrpunimi i planprogrameve vjetore, javore e deri te ato ditore do pun\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Sa koh\u00eb shpenzon p\u00ebr interpretimin e tyre, dy her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb shpenzon p\u00ebr p\u00ebrpunimin e tyre. Ndryshe \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh p\u00ebr nj\u00eb provim, ndryshe \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatit\u00ebsh nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim p\u00ebr dh\u00ebnie, ai k\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb dhe do thjesht\u00ebzim aq t\u00eb madh q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019a p\u00ebrvetsojn\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit me nivele t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb suksesit .<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb ua kisha parashtruar prind\u00ebrve \u00ebsht\u00eb se a thua mund ta v\u00ebrejn\u00eb te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre ndryshimin nga kur fillojn\u00eb vijimin e m\u00ebsimit parashkollor deri n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim t\u00eb klas\u00ebs s\u00eb pest\u00eb q\u00eb llogaritet t\u00eb jet\u00eb niveli i ul\u00ebt i shkoll\u00ebs fillore.<\/p>\n
Nga iu vjen ajo dituri, nga iu formohet ai vet\u00ebbesim f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, nga del kjo mas\u00eb t\u00eb shkolluarish n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb kur kujtojm\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar jo t\u00eb larg\u00ebt q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit intelektual \u201cnum\u00ebroheshin n\u00eb gishta\u201d.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme shkolla \u00ebsht\u00eb institucion i edukimit dhe m\u00ebsimit dhe p\u00ebrve\u00e7 q\u00eb llogaritet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr shtyllat kryesore t\u00eb shtetit ajo ndikon edhe drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb n\u00eb leht\u00ebsimin e prind\u00ebrimit .<\/p>\n
Prindi \u00ebsht\u00eb i qet\u00eb kur e din q\u00eb f\u00ebmija i tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, shfryt\u00ebzon koh\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebsim dhe ec\u00ebn hap pas hapi nga viti n\u00eb vit. Prind\u00ebrit dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit jan\u00eb v\u00ebzhgues t\u00eb m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb kaloj te gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb konkrete n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat un\u00eb eci, i preki \u00e7do dit\u00eb, i p\u00ebrjetoj, sfidoj, jetoj, g\u00ebzohem, pik\u00ebllohem, mundohem e mos t\u00eb flas sa shpenzohem. Mendoj se jemi e vetmja shtres\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb kosovare tek e cila ende jeton humanizmi.<\/p>\n
Jam m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebse e shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme profesionale t\u00eb teknik\u00ebs n\u00eb Gjilan , shkoll\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledh kryesisht nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb shtresave mos t\u00eb them t\u00eb varf\u00ebris\u00eb ekstreme por kryesisht f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb papun\u00ebsuar (faji nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb papun\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb).<\/p>\n
Kryesisht tek ne regjistrohen nx\u00ebn\u00ebs me sukses mesatar, kurse me p\u00ebrjashtim t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre viteve t\u00eb fundit me hapjen e disa profileve t\u00eb reja si arkitektur\u00eb, informatik\u00eb etj. regjistrohen nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer. Mos t\u00eb hy n\u00eb detaje e t\u00eb filloj t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr emocionet e lartsh\u00ebnuara.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrve\u00e7 m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnies, q\u00eb e kemi prioritet dhe e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb fush\u00eb pa fund, ne mezi mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmblidhemi duke improvizuar, t\u00eb afrojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duhet nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi ta p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ata vin\u00eb tek ne n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebs e me kryerjen e matur\u00ebs dalin t\u00eb pjekur jo rast\u00ebsisht, sepse nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb goxha t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs e kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb duart tona.<\/p>\n
Shpesh p\u00ebrballemi me s\u00ebmundjet e ndonj\u00ebrit, me humbjen e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb ndonj\u00ebrit ku ndjejm\u00eb dhe ndajm\u00eb me ta dhimbjen, iu ofrojm\u00eb kujdes dhe v\u00ebmendje, nd\u00ebrsa sa i p\u00ebrket varf\u00ebris\u00eb shum\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme mundohemi t\u00eb iu ndihmojm\u00eb pa i v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pozita t\u00eb palakmueshme duke i furnizuar me libra, fletore, uniforma, material shpenzues, ekskursione,etj.<\/p>\n
Shpeshher\u00eb na ndodh t\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi. pa i menduar pasojat. edhe me prind\u00ebr\u00eb apo kujdestar\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin dhun\u00eb ndaj tyre, ne shpesh marrim p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr edhe t\u2019ua paguajm\u00eb edhe mujoret nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve t\u00eb zonave rurale, t\u2019u japim or\u00eb plot\u00ebsuese pa kurrfar\u00eb kompensimi vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019i \u00e7uar p\u00ebrpara, t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb brengat e hallet e tyre e shpesh edhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb d\u00ebshirat e tyre n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i motivojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara. Jo rast\u00ebsisht s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se m\u00ebsuesi \u00ebsht\u00eb prindi i dyt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u00c7do dit\u00eb secili m\u00ebsues mund t\u00eb shkruaj\u00eb apo t\u00eb rr\u00ebfej\u00eb nga nj\u00eb tregim t\u00eb gjat\u00eb se si kalohet me nx\u00ebn\u00ebs sidomos n\u00eb mosha t\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebs, mosh\u00eb kur nuk mundet as prindi t\u2019i menaxhoj\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb kur mendojn\u00eb se vet\u00ebm ata kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebsh p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar por p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr faktit ne japim djers\u00ebn e fundit duke p\u00ebrdorur metoda nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme q\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7 q\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb ata dhe edukohen .<\/p>\n
E k\u00ebta t\u00eb rinj pas kryerjes s\u00eb matur\u00ebs v\u00ebrshojn\u00eb qytetet universitare dhe me ta krenohet gjith\u00eb atdheu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb t\u00eb ftohta t\u00eb janarit, me paralajm\u00ebrimin e grevave t\u00eb m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve fillova t\u00eb kuptoj se kush qenkemi n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Sipas shum\u00eb shkrimeve n\u00eb llogari e tyre t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale kuptova q\u00eb kishim qen\u00eb kriminel\u00eb, t\u00eb paditur,t\u00eb padenj\u00eb, p\u00ebrtac\u00eb e p\u00ebr \u00e7udi sipas nj\u00eb gazetari edhe hara\u00e7xhinj\u00eb. Shkruan: Ajshe Matoshi Krejt i kap\u00ebrdiva […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-31882","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31882","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31882"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31882\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}