Spikam\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb ka trajtimi i femrave n\u00eb mentalitetin shqiptar qysh nga koh\u00ebt e lashta, fenomen ky q\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb pasoja ende n\u00eb shum\u00eb familje kosovare. N\u00eb disa raste kjo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me kufizimin e liris\u00eb s\u00eb femr\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u2019u arsimuar e n\u00eb disa t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb barabarta me gjinin\u00eb e kund\u00ebrt, specifikisht me v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e saj, por dhe me ushtrimin e profesionit q\u00eb ajo mund ta p\u00eblqej, por q\u00eb ndoshta mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb profesion q\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb ushtrohet nga gjinia e kund\u00ebrt dhe se kjo sipas bindjeve t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs: \u201cKjo Pun\u00eb nuk b\u00ebn p\u00ebr femra\u201d.
\nN\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr po t\u00eb marrim si shqyrtim hapat sfidues se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaluar nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr n\u00eb pozit\u00eb, padyshim se nga fjal\u00ebt e saj mund t\u00eb shohim shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb aspekte t\u00eb: p\u00ebrbuzjes, n\u00ebn\u00e7mimit, ngacmimit, dhun\u00ebs s\u00eb ndryshme si verbale, psikike, madje dhe n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste dhe at\u00eb seksuale q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar nga epror\u00ebt e saj ku ajo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb punuar, por dhe ku punon aktualisht.<\/p>\n
Rrjedhimisht thuajse n\u00eb \u00e7do veprimtari shoq\u00ebrore ku ka qasje gjinia fem\u00ebrore ende ballafaqimi me k\u00ebto \u201cAnomalitete Psikike\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm me t\u00eb madhe, jo pse institucionet nuk mundohen t\u00eb ju ofrojn\u00eb trajtim t\u00eb barabart\u00eb t\u00eb dy gjinive, por se rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e sjelljeve \u00e7\u2019njer\u00ebzore kan\u00eb baz\u00ebn e fort\u00eb, q\u00eb nga koha e aplikimit t\u00eb \u201cKanuneve\u201d. Ve\u00e7mas k\u00ebsaj megjith\u00ebse ekzistojn\u00eb p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00ebdha ligjore p\u00ebr femr\u00ebn, n\u00eb an\u00ebn praktike jo q\u00eb nuk zbatohen t\u00eb gjitha, por dhe ato t\u00eb zbatueshmet, b\u00ebhen vet\u00ebm sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar t\u00eb ashtu quajtur\u00ebn \u201cKuot\u00eb Gjinore\u201d, ani pse shum\u00eb femra ndoshta mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb super aft\u00ebsi e shkatht\u00ebsi n\u00eb nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb madh t\u00eb fush\u00eb-veprimtarive shoq\u00ebrore, th\u00ebn\u00eb shkurt, sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe ne kemi femra n\u00eb institucionin apo partin\u00eb ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Kur i qasemi politik\u00ebs, femra n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb, n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe vazhdon t\u00eb mbetet \u201cNum\u00ebr Vote\u201d dhe jo person adekuat p\u00ebr t\u00eb udh\u00ebhequr nj\u00eb subjekt, komun\u00eb apo vet\u00eb shtetin, me paragjykimin se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vogla: m\u00ebsuese, profesoresh\u00eb, mjeke, q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb pak kontakte me meshkuj, se shtetin \u201cAjo s\u2019din ta drejtoj\u201d! Por, p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur pozit\u00ebn e merituar ajo kalon zi e m\u00eb zi, si nga: t\u00eb sharat, fyerjet, ngacmimet seksuale prej individ\u00ebve t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm si brenda subjekteve politike, por dhe jasht\u00eb tyre. Ajo p\u00ebrjeton ankthin p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur deri te nj\u00eb vend pune, duke u ofenduar nga rrethi e \u201cPun\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit\u201d se: \u201cPa t\u2019shti n\u2019dor\u00eb s\u2019ka vend pune\u201d dhe asnj\u00eb vot\u00eb nga shoq\u00ebria e gjer\u00eb.
\nPo ta prekim arsimimin se sa \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkolluar ajo e sa duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e ul\u00ebt se gjinia e kund\u00ebrt, sepse ende vazhdon avazi i vjet\u00ebr q\u00eb: \u201cQ\u00eb djalin duhet shkolluar shum\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa Vajz\u00ebn\u201d, n\u00eb shum\u00eb familje dhe jo barabarsisht deri n\u00eb arritjen e ambicieve t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruara q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb secila fem\u00ebr, gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb bashk\u00eblidhje me mund\u00ebsit\u00eb socio-ekonomike q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb familje kosovare.<\/p>\n
Kundrejt k\u00ebsaj po t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe e mbi arsimuar, shum\u00eb pun\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb ju besohen gjinis\u00eb mashkullore se femra NUK din aq sa mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i aft\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull, duke mos ju qasur aft\u00ebsive psikike, por atyre fizike q\u00eb mashkulli ka forc\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, sesa vet ajo.
\nFenomen tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb i privon t\u00eb drejtat elementare t\u00eb femr\u00ebs, p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur dhe krijuar nj\u00eb karrier\u00eb t\u00eb saj, \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe fakti i detyrimit t\u00eb martesave t\u00eb hershme, vet\u00ebm pse ajo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaluar mbi t\u00eb 20-tat e pas k\u00ebsaj moshe mund t\u00eb \u201cNgelet Beqare\u201d t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn, tabu kjo q\u00eb i prek shum\u00eb fshatra t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs se \u201cFemra \u00ebsht\u00eb e der\u00ebs s\u00eb huaj\u201d dhe s\u2019ka vend te babai pas k\u00ebsaj moshe, p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr kontributit t\u00eb saj q\u00eb nga lindja e deri n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb familje.<\/p>\n
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\nPhD.Can. Besjana Rexhepi
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Spikam\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb ka trajtimi i femrave n\u00eb mentalitetin shqiptar qysh nga koh\u00ebt e lashta, fenomen ky q\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb pasoja ende n\u00eb shum\u00eb familje kosovare. N\u00eb disa raste kjo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me kufizimin e liris\u00eb s\u00eb femr\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u2019u arsimuar e n\u00eb disa t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb barabarta me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":33431,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-33430","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33430"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33430\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}