\u201cMos e lexoni n\u00ebse nuk doni, por ja k\u00ebshtu ne, familja Arifi u zhg\u00ebnjyem me shtetin n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e t\u00eb cilit mor\u00ebm pjes\u00eb edhe vet!<\/p>\n
E di q\u00eb kjo q\u00eb po shkruaj k\u00ebtu mund t\u00eb ting\u00eblloj\u00eb ndryshe nga ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb ndjej\u00eb por t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb bindur se \u00ebsht\u00eb mu k\u00ebshtu si\u00e7 mund ta lexoni m\u00eb posht\u00eb.
\nPak ka familje n\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn e paralufte q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb persekutuar ma shum\u00eb nga ish-regjimet sllavo-komuniste,se familja jon\u00eb Arifi. Mos ti hym\u00eb edhe koh\u00ebve edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra,sepse edhe ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbushura me histori sakrifice p\u00ebr atdhe.
\nD\u00ebnimet politike me burg t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb burra nga kjo familje ,deri tek persekutimi po ashtu me burgosje pa kursyer as f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mosh\u00ebs shum\u00eb t\u00eb re e deri n\u00eb adoleshenc\u00eb.
\nJo vet\u00ebm burgu, por edhe format e tjera t\u00eb persekutimit u zbatuan mbi pjestar\u00ebt e k\u00ebsaj familje;nuk u lejuan t\u00eb shkollohen u p\u00ebrjashtuan nga edukimi i lart\u00eb (fakulteti..) p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshm\u00ebris\u00eb politike,p\u00ebrderisa nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e familjar\u00ebve burra nuk i pan\u00eb as f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre duke u rritur sepse ishin arratisur n\u00eb dhe t\u00eb huaj dhe me vite nuk guxuan t\u00eb ktheheshin n\u00eb atdheun e tyre sepse k\u00ebrc\u00ebnoheshin nga regjimi me burgim.
\nLuft\u00ebs nuk i q\u00ebndruam anash. Familja Arifi (p\u00ebr mos me u keqkuptue e kam fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr familjen e ngusht\u00eb t\u00eb Shabi Arifit) nga Sefer\u00ebt t\u00eb cil\u00ebt tani jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb Gjilan ngjesh\u00ebn radh\u00ebt edhe t\u00eb U\u00c7K-s\u00eb, U\u00c7PMB-s\u00eb ,dhe U\u00c7K (Maqedoni).Edhe trojet etnike shqiptare q\u00eb nga Maqedonia e Lugin\u00eb e tutje u njom\u00ebn me gjakun e d\u00ebshmor\u00ebve nga kjo familje.
\nKjo familje , pas luft\u00ebs ishte e para q\u00eb mundohej t\u00eb radhitej n\u00eb an\u00ebn e modestis\u00eb shtetformuese pa pretendime n\u00eb asgj\u00eb,duke mos uzurpuar asgj\u00eb e duke paguar \u00e7do detyrim komunal e shtetror p\u00ebr t\u2019i kontribuar ngritjes s\u00eb shtetit dhe duke mos pretenduar kurr\u00eb asgj\u00eb e duke iu g\u00ebzuar zhvillimit t\u00eb vendit.
\nKjo familje, ka marr\u00eb edhe nisiativa bamir\u00ebse duke ndihmuar shum\u00ebk\u00ebnd me mund\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj,deri edhe n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtim sht\u00ebpie.<\/p>\n
Por \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb dihet nga lexuesi i k\u00ebtyre rreshtave, kjo familje ka jetuar gjith\u00ebmon\u00eb ve\u00e7 me djers\u00ebn e saj\u00eb,pa i r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7af\u00eb askujt dhe as shtetit.
\nPor le t\u00eb dihet edhe se kjo familje kurr\u00eb nuk ka h\u00ebng\u00ebr buk\u00ebn e ish-Jugoserbis\u00eb,por s\u2019ia ka pa dobin\u00eb kurr\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto vjet lirie as shtetit t\u00eb vet t\u00eb ri, Kosov\u00ebs q\u00eb aq shum\u00eb dha p\u00ebr t\u00eb. M\u00eb falni jo-modestin\u00eb!<\/p>\n
As kemi marr\u00eb kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohje, as nj\u00eb vend pune e as kurr\u00eb s\u2019jemi ushqye me parat\u00eb e k\u00ebtij shteti. P\u00ebrkundrazi ve\u00e7 sa i kemi dhan\u00eb e vazhdojm\u00eb t\u2019i japim akoma.<\/p>\n
Me shkrue (fol\u00eb) ka del shpirti ne n\u00eb raste t\u00eb ndryshme , ve\u00e7 sherrin ia kemi pa. Jo q\u00eb s\u2019ia ka nie k\u00ebrkujt p\u00ebr sakrific\u00ebn kolektive t\u00eb familjes son\u00eb, shpesh s\u2019kemi marr\u00eb as respektin e thjesht\u00eb, por p\u00ebrkundrazi na kan injoruar e edhe na kan\u00eb provokuar e s\u2019na kan\u00eb lan\u00eb as n\u00eb shpin\u00eb ton\u00eb rehat duke na provokuar.
\nNe edhe sot ballafaqohemi me probleme t\u00eb tilla, ve\u00e7se nuk kemi dasht\u00eb me u ba pateric\u00eb e asnj\u00eb nomenklature politike.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cMos e lexoni n\u00ebse nuk doni, por ja k\u00ebshtu ne, familja Arifi u zhg\u00ebnjyem me shtetin n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e t\u00eb cilit mor\u00ebm pjes\u00eb edhe vet! E di q\u00eb kjo q\u00eb po shkruaj k\u00ebtu mund t\u00eb ting\u00eblloj\u00eb ndryshe nga ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb ndjej\u00eb por t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb bindur se \u00ebsht\u00eb mu k\u00ebshtu si\u00e7 mund ta lexoni […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":70365,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-70364","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=70364"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70364\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70365"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=70364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=70364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=70364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}