Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e Xhevit Hykos. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb afro 80 vje\u00e7 , ka punuar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij si kova\u00e7 dhe mullixhi, por \u201cprofesioni\u201d q\u00eb e b\u00ebri t\u00eb famsh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb ai i mblesit. Ai kujton se q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim e kishte pasion t\u00eb bashkonte \u00e7ifte.<\/p>\n
\u201cE kam nisur me nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb u prish, me kalimin e koh\u00ebs m\u00eb hyri n\u00eb gjak kjo pun\u00eb. M\u00eb p\u00ebrpara ishte ndryshe shikonin fisin e rrjetin e miq\u00ebsis\u00eb, por tani \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, \u00e7upat tani ruajn\u00eb makin\u00ebn jo shoferin.<\/p>\n
Xheviti tregon gjithashtu se si vepron p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar nj\u00eb bashkim: \u201cKur dua t\u00eb futem p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ift n\u00eb fillim i drejtohem prindit, kur kam nj\u00eb \u00e7up\u00eb zgjedh djalin n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb karakterit, t\u00eb jet\u00eb njeri i mir\u00eb, njeri i pun\u00ebs, t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lidhur me familjen, shikoj fisin, ka raste kur jan\u00eb \u00e7ik t\u00eb shkalafitur, i gjej shokun e saja, se nuk shkon nj\u00eb i mir\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb keq, po un\u00eb i gjej af\u00ebrsisht shokun secilit q\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb mir\u00eb. Kur martoj \u00e7upa q\u00eb jan\u00eb ndar\u00eb ndjej g\u00ebzim t\u00eb dyfisht\u00eb se \u00e7upa te prindi nuk ka rehat, v\u00ebllai ka familjen e tij, kunata se ka gj\u00eb, ajo lind n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb huaj dhe shkon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb saj, ndaj sa m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb z\u00ebr\u00eb vendin aq m\u00eb mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb: \u201ckur kalojn\u00eb nga t\u00eb 30-tat, pastaj nuk vendosin m\u00eb \u00e7upat\u201d.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb emision nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i ri Alfrosi dhe Marsida kan\u00eb rr\u00ebfyer historin\u00eb e tyre se si Xheviti ua b\u00ebri \u00ebndrr\u00ebn realitet. Alfrosi: \u201cnjifesha me vajz\u00ebn e kisha par\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, por mentaliteti i vendit, prind\u00ebrit e saj nuk donin q\u00eb vajza t\u00eb vinte n\u00eb fshat ku banoja un\u00eb. Kur Marsida ju tregoi q\u00eb m\u00eb donte mua, ata e b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb pamundur. E donin vajz\u00ebn ta martonin n\u00eb qytet. Kur m\u00eb refuzuan normalisht q\u00eb nuk u ndjeva mir\u00eb dhe pyesja veten se pse nuk m\u00eb duan mua. Ju drejtova xhevitit i cili m\u00eb siguroi se do t\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb at\u00eb familje dhe martesa do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej. Sot jemi t\u00eb martuar dhe prind\u00ebr t\u00eb dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.\u201d<\/p>\n
Me kalimin e viteve situata ka ndryshuar dhe p\u00ebr Xhevitin puna e mblesit \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb: \u201cTani g\u00ebnjehen, lidhen q\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, gabohen lidhen me telefona, telefoni i prishi, nuk i tregojn\u00eb prindit. Licenca ime tani ka r\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb. Tani sa fejohen z\u00ebre se u martuan q\u00eb dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb flen\u00eb bashk\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr sociologen Entela Binjaku m\u00ebnyra se si nj\u00eb \u00e7ift njihet nuk ka ndonj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb vecant\u00eb ajo thot\u00eb se: \u201c ky moment i fillimit kthehet thjesht n\u00eb nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb jua tregojn\u00eb pasardh\u00ebsve, ka plot raste kur fillesat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb mbara, qofshin kur ato lidhen me mbles\u00ebri qofshin kur lidhen me njohjen reciproke, por cil\u00ebsia e jet\u00ebs martesore varet m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga element\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe jo nga m\u00ebnyra si jan\u00eb njohur. Nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat e mira q\u00eb shoh n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb besimi q\u00eb shoq\u00ebria shqiptare kishte tek martesa. Tani numri i martesave ka r\u00ebn\u00eb sepse njer\u00ebzit besojn\u00eb m\u00eb pak tek ajo, mosbesimi ka ardhur si pasoj\u00eb e historive t\u00eb shumta t\u00eb martesave t\u00eb palumtura\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e Xhevit Hykos. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb afro 80 vje\u00e7 , ka punuar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij si kova\u00e7 dhe mullixhi, por \u201cprofesioni\u201d q\u00eb e b\u00ebri t\u00eb famsh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb ai i mblesit. Ai kujton se q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim e kishte pasion t\u00eb bashkonte \u00e7ifte. \u201cE kam nisur me nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb u prish, me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":94996,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-94995","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-magazina"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=94995"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94995\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=94995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=94995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiostargjilan.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=94995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}